Are We a Product of our Environment or Not?
Jan, 20, 2012
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Many of us were raised thinking, believing “we are a product of our environment”. I know I was. I can’t even count how many times I’ve used that excuse to explain away something!
Turns out, I’ve learned, this not the case. We are most definitely a product of our habits, and our surroundings and upbringing have produced those habits, but does that mean that it HAS to be that way? I would like to say a resounding NO to that!!
Simply because we have learned something our entire lives growing up does not mean that THAT is the way it HAS to be! We have a choice in the matter as to how we live our lives. We do not have to … for example, ‘make the Christmas turkey that way because, well, that’s how my mom did it when I was growing up’. In the same light, we do not have to live our lives believing we are middle class when we truly have the potential of a rich life (and lifestyle!). These are choices we make, and beliefs we form.
These topics go WAY deeper than I can express here, but if you still struggle with this idea of being a product of your environment then I would recommend a couple of books by one of my FAVORITE authors, John Assaraf. The first is Having It All: Achieving Your Life’s Goals and Dreams. This book changed the way I thought about SO many things and completely changed my life. I know that sounds sort of cliche, but it really is true! The second book I’d recommend is The Answer: Your Guide to Achieving Financial Freedom and Living an Extraordinary Life
. This book is sort of a follow up, from John’s perspective, to the tremendously popular book The Secret
.
Remember, just because that’s what you were told, doesn’t make it so. You are a product of YOUR beliefs dreams and goals … NOT a Product of your Environment!
To your deserved happiness and SUCCESS!
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