Live an Authentic Life

posted by / September 18, 2016

I believe are the keys to living an authentic and passionate life; those three L’s are laugh, love, live.

It is my purpose in life to inspire your passion; to ignite your passion so that you wake up every day with a passion for your purpose, whatever that is.
Living that passion is living authentically!

1. Laughter…is the best medicine!

If you have nothing to laugh about throughout your day you need to change something in your world…start by laughing at yourself.

Or, go on YouTube look up old episodes of I Love Lucy or whatever else that is going to make you laugh!

Laughter is SO important; when life is so serious, hardcore, depressing, suppressing and difficult we often forget that laughter helps us release! It can help us release all kinds of stuff that is keeping us down and dark and I really encourage you to spend a little bit of time every single day laughing!

2. Love…love is the next L

Love fully, love completely, and I’m not talking about the physical type of love although that is pretty awesome too, but I’m talking about friendship love. Love unconditionally, love like you’ve never been hurt before. I know that sounds so cliche but take a second and really think about it; really let that sink into your soul. We’ve all been hurt; I’ve been hurt more times than I haven’t been hurt, or more times than I’ve been the one doing the hurt. It just is so important to have love in your life!

I’m the first to admit my walls are crazy-high when it comes to relationship style love and I am learning to let those down. There’s nothing wrong with being single and in fact, I quite love being single, at this point in my life I prefer to be single, however the universe and God may have a different plan for me at some point in my life but I’m not going to recognize it unless those walls come down and I let love in. I love to output love but receiving love for me has been challenging…there’s some real talk for you.

Analyze yourself, go within, go deep inside and see how willing are you to receive love. For a lot of us it’s easy to give but until you’re willing to receive it it’s not that full cycle thing and you’re cutting yourself off from living authentically if you do that.

3. The 3rd L is Live

Live your passion, live full-out, do what makes you happy, and again, super cliche but I don’t care it actually means something…find your passion! Whatever it is, what gets you stoked every morning? What is your passion in life? It doesn’t have to be work-related it can be whatever. John Lee Dumas talked about your Ikigai; that’s your passion, your purpose for living, your reason for getting up every morning.

Regardless of circumstance focus on that passion, live full out. Life is so short my friends; in order for you to live authentically and fulfill your life’s purpose we need to live each
and every day full out, full steam ahead. That doesn’t always mean going out and doing stuff but if you’re like me and you sit behind a computer for a good amount of time every day there are things you can do; there are people you can connect with and talk to that can make a difference and help you live out your passion and help you live authentically.

I hope that this is resonated with you and that you find some value in it. Practice your three L’s and see how your life can change.

Establish Yourself as an Authority Figure

posted by / May 15, 2016

How to establish yourself as an authority figure

Hey, you. Ya you. Entrepreneur. You want to grow your brand, your business, your “place” in Internet land? Then establish yourself as an authority figure that people are searching for. No one is stopping you. Except you. I know this because I do it to myself. Every single day. You got this. I got this! Let’s do it together!

Being an authority figure does NOT mean that you have it all figured out. What it does mean however, is that you are trying your best, working hard, hustling, learning, growing, developing your character and LIVING YOUR PURPOSE.

Are you living yours? Then you are indeed [should you allow yourself to be] and authority figure! Entrepreneurs all around this world of Internet land are looking for leaders just like you. Why not step up and see what happens? I know I’m going to!

This last week I had an amazing lunch with a new friend and she found out [even though I’ve desperately been trying to hide it] through her amazing strength and intuition that I truly don’t know my purpose….not really. I’m CLOSE, but have a little more digging to do till I truly land on that magic X on the treasure map of life.

So, entrepreneur, I KNOW how you feel, as I am there too. I intend to live out the rest of my entrepreneurial days as a true authority figure…and be proud of it. I believe you will be there too. Simply allow.

lorri ratzlaff

How to Eliminate the Compare Monster FOREVER

posted by / March 20, 2016

Eliminate the Compare Monster

Today’s blog post is not only a training, but is also an entry for Brendon Burchard‘s Expert’s Academy contest! WISH ME LUCK!

First things first though…my topic for today’s training video is how to eliminate the COMPARE MONSTER forever. This is a monster that hides in my life and sometimes (often?) takes over everything I’m trying to succeed at and accomplish! Sheesh, relentless little buggar!!

Compare or despair says John Lee Dumas from a Snapchat chat I had with “JLD” the other day! I am taking that to heart and learning, so I can teach. Sooooo, here are the 5 tips that you can use to SUCCEED at conquering the Compare Monster…FOREVER! I’m going to be using them too!

  • Focus on the things that are special about you; your life experience, your age, your story
  • Give yourself reminders on your greatness in and around your world; post it notes, pop up reminders on your phone, voice recordings Eliminate the Compare Monster
  • Surround yourself with people who need what you have to offer
  • LEARN from those who you compare yourself too but don’t LEAN on them…leaning leads to thinking that you don’t have what it takes; and you do
  • Be a constant student in order to be the best teacher possible; keeping your mind busy will keep your mind off of the compare monster

I hope you found some value in this…I know I’m going to start practicing these 5 Compare Monster exorcism activities TO-DAY! Once you’ve tried them, let me know how your journey is going in the comment section!

With love & gratitude …

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Happy Valentines Day to YOURSELF

posted by / February 14, 2016

Happy Valentines Day Love

On this day dedicated to LOVE and all things “mushy gushy” I’m here to give you a simple reminder, instruction even, to LOVE YOURSELF…first and foremost.



Whether or not you are in a relationship of some sort you can take the time to love yourself UNCONDITIONALLY today…and always.


Give yourself the GIFT and learn the importance of loving yourself unconditionally. You can give yourself Valentines Day gifts today too; chocolate, pizza, shoes, purses, a movie date, a new tablet, maybe a car…I could go on and ON with that list. Translate what you might give to your “lover” and give that to yourself instead! <3


To quote Louise Hay:


…there is only one thing that heals every problem, and that is: to know how to love yourself.

When people start to love themselves more each day, it’s amazing how their lives get better. They feel better. They get the jobs they want. They have the money they need. Their relationships either improve, or the negative ones dissolve and new ones begin.


Today I did a brief Periscope chat on the subject because, even though there are a lot of people out there ‘scoping about their Valentines Day dates and their romantic getaways, there (I’m QUITE certain) are also a lot of people home alone on this night feeling sorry for themselves…or wishing they were somewhere else, and I wanted to encourage those people.



Love yourself my friends of the internet; it’s the most important relationship you’ll ever nourish.

With love & gratitude …

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The Time The Doctors Asked Me To Be On Their TV Show

posted by / January 24, 2016

the DOCTORS asked me to be on their tv show

So my friends of the internet, here’s a whacky story for you. It’s called “The time the DOCTORS asked me to be on their TV show” and it’s a real life story. Turned out to be the role I never got, as my actress daughter would say.

So it started like this…

The Time the Doctors asked me to be on their show

I got a comment on one of my videos [I answer all of my LEGIT comments on YouTube #justsayin] (lots of people don’t) and could barely believe what I was seeing!

Needless to say, after getting back up off the floor from shock and excitement, I responded IMMEDIATELY! We communicated several times back and forth and it was all becoming very real and VERY exciting!

Instantly Ageless™ Product of the Year 2014 She said that the show wanted to do a segment on Instantly Ageless™ as they were hearing so much buzz about it. It DID win product of the year from The Academy of Multi Level Marketing for 2014 after all, which is pretty cool! Obviously the Doctors heard about this and wanted to showcase our amazing product!

SMART! And they PICKED ME to be part of it! So, here’s the full story for you…in my own words.

Yet another notch in the learning post of life! #itsallgood [I keep telling myself]. No, it actually IS all good because who REALLY gets these kinds of invitations? Not that many of us for sure, so I was completely honoured to be asked.

You may be asking what happened, and why it didn’t actually work out. Well, I could tell you but it doesn’t matter anymore because it didn’t happen and life goes on.

Yet another blazingly obvious example that we have to CHOOSE our reactions…how am I going to let this affect me. Admittedly, I felt sorry for myself over this for almost a full day, but then I stopped that shit and moved on! CHOICE is all we have my friends when it comes to recovery. What other people do is something we have no control over. So did I get my big break on the TV show the Doctors? Not this time…and that’s just fine with me.


With love & gratitude …

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Mindset for Success

choicessmI spent the evening yesterday learning about Mindset for Success with a large group of entrepreneurs in Vancouver, BC. The speaker for the evening was John Nieuwenburg of W5Coaching.com.

John and I met months ago when presenting together at a BNI event, and we’ve stayed in touch ever since!  That’s the beauty of networking, finding colleagues to work with and some even become friends!

So here is John, doing what he does best, teaching us and training us how to have a Mindset for Success, in our businesses and life in general!

Some of the best topics he talked about were our self-limiting beliefs, what they mean and where they come from; our values; the choices we make (he talks about that a little bit in the video that you just watched).  One of my favorite lines that he said was [tweetherder text=”successful people chose their response”]”successful people chose their response”[/tweetherder].  I talk a LOT about choices and that when it comes down to it really EVERYTHING is a choice, and when we chose to respond a certain way that could either truly make us or break us.

John is great, he has a really great blog as well so please feel free to visit him over at www.w5coaching.com.  I know you will find value in learning more about him!

Inspiring You into Taking Action …

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